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If we take a piece of rotten fruit and place it beside perfectly good fruit, the mold from the rotten fruit spreads over to the good fruit and both end up in bad condition. When we surround ourselves with people who donít build us up, we become just like them.

The only people who deserve to be in our life are the ones who treat us with love, kindness and respect. People
The biggest tragedy in a relationship is to hang on long after the respect has gone. We are better off being alone and happy than staying with those who make us unhappy.
 always remember our mistakes but, few remember the good things we have done to them. Sometimes removing some people out of our life makes room for better people.

Life is surrounded by people who judge us day in and day out. They will talk about us when we succeed and laugh at us when we fail. They can make us or break us. But the secret is to live a humble life that pleases God, not people. Let us not worry about what people say behind our back. They are the people who are finding faults in our life instead of fixing their own.

I have learned that we should stop complaining about our relationship with others once we have done our very best. It might be between couple, parents/children, siblings, relatives, friends, etc. Some people expect the other party to initiate the connection all the time. They feel proud and important. However, sometimes the best way to get someoneís attention is to stop giving ours.

Let us stop mending a broken relationship and , start fixing ourselves. What we are most afraid to do can bring us the most happiness.  Let us lsten to our heart, learn to let go, live without regret.
A broken relationship is like a broken glass. It is better to leave it broken when it gets expensive and keeps on hurting us trying to fix it. It is time to let go. Believe me; I have learned that sometimes God gives us the wrong person before giving us the right one, so that when the right one comes, we know how to appreciate the gift.

I have also learned that we should never take for granted anyone for the person we took for granted today may turn out to be the person we need tomorrow. Let us be careful how we treat other people. So when people hurt us over and over, let us try to avoid them and think of them as sandpaper. They may scratch and hurt a bit, but in the end, we end up polished and they end up useless.

  By Tim Pedrosa


Relationship is a game of chance, sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. The key is to know when to hold on and when to move on. We can't determine who will come into our life but we can choose whom weu will allow to stay.

 

Tim