Memories are always special. Sometimes
we laugh by remembering the days we cried, and
we cry by remembering the days we laughed..!!
That’s life. The waves may wash away what was
written on the sand but even time cannot erase
the memory in our hearts. Life can only be
understood backwards; but must be lived forward.
Here’s a touching story of woman’s
unexpected encounter with Uber driver on her way to the airport.
John was my Uber driver on my way to the
airport in Palm Springs, California. I asked him
if I could sit in the front seat, he was not
expecting it.
“Of course, he said!”
As we drove, he
asked why I was traveling, I said for work. Then
he asked if I was about 28. I said about 27. The
next thing he said filled my eyes with tears. I
brushed them away so he could not see. Three
years ago, John’s daughter passed away
unexpectedly at 29. She left behind a 4-year old
son. He told me I reminded him of her, we shared
the same kind hearts and that’s why he asked.
Kindness
is helping someone without expecting anything in return. |
He could
not resuscitate her. He tried to breathe life
into his daughter’s lifeless body. But he found
her far too late. John was holding his
daughter’s son in his arms when his grandson’s
daddy passed away. “I wish I could have done
more. Why couldn’t I bring her back to life? Why
didn’t I know her husband was silently
suffering? How come I didn’t dig further to find
out so I could help? I wish I would have done
more. And now it is all too late.”
We
talked like we have known each other our whole
lives on our 25 minute drive to the airport. As
we arrived, I looked over at him, tears rolling
down his cheeks. My heart melted into my
stomach. He looked over at me, with
uncontrollable tears and said, “I’m so sorry for
all of this. I have never met someone so kind
hearted, so friendly, and so non-judgemental. I
feel like I lifted so many years of feelings off
my chest
to someone I don’t even
know, but was willing to listen; telling me I
am going to be OK; someone to console with me.
I wish I could hug you, but I know so many
people don’t like hugs. So I just want to
tell you thank you.”
We don't
meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason. |
He patted my
forearm and said, “Please never let the world
make you hard. Don’t ever let anyone bring you
down. Keep smiling that heart-warming smile.
Keep being kind to strangers because you have
shown me the kindness a stranger can give and I
wish I could express how much it has meant to me
in just 25 minutes.”
I
smiled and stepped out of the car to get my
luggage because that’s all I could do without
letting all of my tears pour out right then and
there into his arms. He took out my luggage for
me, and turned to me wiping his tears. I looked
at him, not able to hold back the emotions any
longer and said, “I love hugs. I will happily
take a hug, John.”
So we hugged
right there in front of the airport, people
quickly passing by, rolling their luggage, in a
hurry every hour of the day. He squeezed my
shoulder, “Take care of yourself Erin. You never
know what hardships people have endured,
especially behind a smiling face like I’ve
masked myself behind for so long. Thank you,
sweet girl.”
I stepped to the curb
with my luggage, watched him open his door and
couldn’t shake the feeling. I yelled, “JOHN!” He
turned swiftly with a smile on his face, “YES?”
“Um... I uh, want to... Can I take a picture
with you? I want to show my family, my husband,
the world, the kind human I met in you today.”
Tears filled his
eyes again, “Of course, sweetie. That would mean
so much to me.” So we snapped this picture. And
I will cash it in my bank of memories forever.
Be a kind human
always, show compassion, have a listening ear,
ask someone about their day, smile at strangers,
say hi in the grocery store, show small acts of
kindness throughout your life, start up a
conversation with your Uber driver. It may mean
more to them and help them more than you could
ever imagine.
By Tim Pedrosa
When
someone is broken, don’t try to fix him.
We cannot. When someone is hurting, don’t
attempt to take away his pain. We cannot.
Instead, love him by walking beside him in
the hurt. We can. Because sometimes what
people need is simply to know they are not
alone.
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Tim
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