The reality of life whether during pandemic or not is: We are all in the same storm, but not in the same boat or we are all in the same boat but not in the same storm. The difference is in our attitude; our faith has to be greater that our fear. Here’s an article inspired by the writing of Andi Fetzner about the poem: “We are not in the same Boat.”
We heard that we are in the same boat. But it’s not like that. We are in the same storm, but not in the same boat. Your ship can be shipwrecked and mine might not be, or vice versa. For some, quarantine is optimal, a moment of reflection, of re-connection, easy, in flip flops, with a whiskey or tea.
For others, this is a desperate crisis. For others, it is facing loneliness. For some: peace, rest time, vacation, yet for others, torture: How am I going to pay my bills? Some were concerned about a brand of chocolate for Easter.
The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with.-Tony Robbins
Others were concerned about the bread for the weekend, or if the noodles would last for a few more days. Some were in their “home office”. Others are looking through trash to survive. Some want to go back to work because they are running out of money. Others want to kill those who break the quarantine. Some need to break the quarantine to stand in line at the banks, others to escape.
Others criticize the government for the lines. Some have experienced the near-death of the virus, some have already lost someone from it, some are not sure their loved ones are going to make it, and some don’t even believe this is a big deal. Some of us who are well now may end up experiencing it, and some believe they are infallible and will be blown away if or when this hits someone they know. Some have faith in God and expect miracles during 2020. Others say the worse is yet to come.
|Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.-William James|
So, friends, we are not in the same boat. We are going through a time when our perceptions and needs are completely different. And each one will emerge, in his own way, from that storm; some with a tan from their pool, others with scars on the soul. It is very important to see beyond what is seen at first glance. Not just looking, more than looking, or seeing. See beyond the political party, beyond biases, beyond the nose on your face. Do not underestimate the pain of others if you do not feel it. Do not judge the good life of others. Do not condemn the bad life of others. Don’t be a judge. Let us not judge the one who lacks, as well as the one who exceeds him. We are on different ships looking to survive.
Let everyone navigate their route with respect, empathy and responsibility. Let us stay non-judgmental and being kind to each other and try to help and support one another whenever we can.