The
power of thought - Love
begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about.
Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and
ourselves. If we want to love
someone, we need to consider his/her needs and desires. Thinking about
your ideal partner will help you recognize that person when you meet
him/her.
The
power of respect -
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect him/her or it.
The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain
self-respect, ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself? "
To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself ,
"What do I respect about them?"
The
power of giving - If
you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more
love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself
freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before
committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to
give to you, but rather what will you be able to give that person. The
secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always
focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The
power of friendship - To
find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist
of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in
the same direction. To love someone completely, you must love that person
for who he/she is and not what that person looks like. Friendship is
the soil through which love's seeds grow.
If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring
friendship.
The
power of touch - Touch
is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers
and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states
and makes us more receptive to love.
The
power of letting go - If
you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was meant to be yours. Even in
a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to
love, we must first learn to forgive
and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our
fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
"Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me
- today is the beginning of a new life."
The
power of communication - When
we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone
is to communicate with we that person. Let the people you love know that
you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave
someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see
him/her. If you were about to
die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you
call, what would you say and why are you waiting?
The
power of commitment - If
you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that
commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving
relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are
committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment
distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
The
power of passion - Passion
ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through
physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm,
interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past
experiences. When you felt passionate, spontaneity and surprises produce
passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do
is to live each day with passion.
The
power of trust - Trust
is essential in all loving relationships.
Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and
the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love
someone completely unless you trust him/her completely. Act as if your
relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you
can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself,
"Do I trust him/her completely and unreservedly?"
If the answer is "no", think carefully
before making a commitment.
~Unknown
Source~
To
those who see with loving eyes, life is beautiful. To those who
speak with a tender voice, life is peaceful. To those who help with
gentle hands, life is full. And to those who care with compassionate
hearts, life is good beyond all measures.
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Tim
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