Let us be a blessing to someone.
Our kind smile or pat on the back just might pull someone back from the
edge. Let us never lose an opportunity to bring sunshine into the lives
of those who look up to our encouragement, to those who need us at
their side.
Here are few encouraging words
that could make a huge difference in someone’s life.
Many of us have
parents, grandparents, or other loved ones who are suffering from any of
the long-term troubles that occur naturally in old age or due to some
other circumstances. We can give them love and support in many
ways.
Empathize -
Put ourselves in their place. We may think we have problems, but if we
stop to think about what it might be like to be their age or situation, that would
probably give us a much greater appreciation for what some people go
through.
Many no
longer have the physical capacity nor ability to do some things they've always done,
which can be discouraging and lead to feelings of uselessness. Depending on
their circumstances, they may worry about what will happen if their
condition worsens. Our loving understanding and
sympathy go a long way in easing those hardships and alleviating those
fears.
Take an
interest -
Some may not be as strong or sharp as they once were, but the
intangibles that matter most, those personal qualities that make them
the unique people they are, have not diminished. In fact, it is often in
the later years that qualities such as love, thoughtfulness, loyalty,
humility, humor, optimism, and wisdom come to full fruition. That makes
some people the most fascinating persons in the world. So let's take the time to unearth their latent
treasures, and we will be surprised at what we will find. They may even
surprise themselves.
Show love
and appreciation -
Sometimes simply
knowing that we are loved can make all the difference in how we view and
deal with our present circumstances. Knowing that they are appreciated
for past efforts can also help some people put their lives in perspective
and counter feelings of regret over failures and shortcomings. Let us show love and appreciation while
we can.
Help them
stay active -
Numerous studies
have shown that physical activity slows the aging process, which results
in both prolonged life and improved quality of life. Conversely, a
sedentary lifestyle increases the chances of age-related disease and
premature death. Even a short walk in the fresh air is beneficial. By helping
some people stay active, we will be
investing in our own future at the same time.
Pray for
them - It has
been said that praying for others is not the least we can do for them,
but the most.
Prayer moves the
heart and hand of God to take action according to our requests.
When we pray for someone, God may
give us some ideas as to how we can help alleviate someone's suffering—perhaps a visit or an afternoon out together, or a phone
call, email, or card.
Greater Love - Jesus said, "Greater love
has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends" (John
15:13). Greater love means taking the initiative to reach out; to feel
what the other person is feeling; to dry their tears; to bear their
burdens; to feel their afflictions; to minister to those who are sick
and nurse them back to health; to listen with a loving, open ear to
those who need to pour out; to be a caring and understanding friend to
those who need a friend; to pray for those in need; to let their
heartaches be our heartaches; to make their hopes and dreams our hopes
and dreams.
It is in loving that we are being loved; it is in sharing that we
receive. Let's remember what The Dalai Lama said: "If
you want others to be happy, give compassion; if you want to be
happy, practice compassion.
Somewhere
there is someone who dreams of your smile, who finds in your presence
that life is worthwhile. So when you are lonely, remember it's true,
that somebody somewhere is thinking of you.- Unknown
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